Just enjoying life, cats, food and punk rock,
Feminists mock men for being weak and fragile but that’s just reinforcing gender roles since men are expected to always be strong and stoic. You say you want to smash traditional gender roles but you uphold stereotypes that are allegedly harmful to you.
I encourage all men in my life to be as open as they feel they can be with their emotions. I do it for my lover, I do it for my friends, and I will do it for my future sons and their sons. Just like I will encourage my daughters to do so and to be as strong as they feel they can be. I believe all children deserve to grow up equally and free from oppression regardless of race class gender and sex.